Five Easy Ways apt Spot one Introvert by Work

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r since I issued the treatise on how introverts and extraverts can work attach, people have been asking me how to know who's who. Good answer.
1. Listen for sheer volume of words. How many words does this person use apt transfer his or her motifs? Introverts use distant fewer words in a day than do extraverts of the same gender, and will mention nobody whether somebody another has already conveyed the message. The prize for fewest words of all goes apt the introverted masculine and the prize for the maximum words, embarrassingly, goes to yours truly, the feminine extravert.
2. Listen for content. How many personal message does this person share? Do you understand many almost his or her life? Does he or she share private anecdotes with many human or just one or two? Introverts share little private information until they yet understand a lot approximately you, and often no even then.
3. If you have access to this person's bureau or cube, take a see. The office of the introvert reveals little. A family photo, displayed where it can't lightly be seen from the guest chairs, and maybe some gifts for successful projects. If the introvert has any say in the office layout,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], there will presumable be a physical barrier (sometimes a very colossal one) between his or her seat and any guest chairs, such as a great chart or long, rectangular table that doesn't lend itself to sitting side-by-side.
4. Observe patterns of way. How effortless namely it to reach this person? Is his or her cell call listed aboard the company catalogue? Does he or she have a personal cell phone namely merely household and near friends tin phone (not namely you would know - ha ha)? Does he or she have a Facebook page,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and how well populated namely it? Does his or her email signature comprise contact information or other information, such as preference quotes? Extraverts put a lot of information out there. Introverts maintain extra privacy on many fronts.
5. Watch for markers at the end of a meeting, especially a long one. Does this person seem to be more weary or cabled? Extraverts get energy from others, if we ambition it or not, so at the end of a long conference, the extravert will appear to be either tired and wired, even a little morsel hyper-active every so often. Introverts get energy from their interior globe, so at the end of a full-day meeting, you won't penetrate any hopping about. In truth, you probably won't watch them at all, since they raced for the gate at the premier chance.
Copyright (c) 2008 Jennifer Selby Long