Before the age of 30, 29 things not to care about

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1, to give up
grasp the opposite is to give up, choose an opportunity to give up all other possibilities. When the new opportunities before us when the courage to give up has given all, it is not short of success, it is not halfway, which is to seek greater development space; or what not to,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], just because I like to do so because the young is the greatest opportunity. People, only in the three-year-old will have the guts before, there is the other capital, are eligible.
2, romance
not care, care about can not afford. Three-year-old former are most afraid of losing what is not already own, but a dream. If love is just a process, then it should be experienced in this age, if you want to take the result, after the three-year-old may be more capable, more qualified. In fact, the three-year-old before we do a lot of fleeting, indulged in too long has been a dry riverbed in love with the rhythm of life in this age substandard.
3, divorce
not care, is all too late. A thirty-year-old girlfriend and married her husband fifteen years, the Cold War ten years, finally breaking up. She said: \ start again, always feel all too late. \
4, wandering
drift is not a misfortune, but a qualification. Taking advantage of the drag is not married, taking advantage of good health, then do not float when the float? Of course, the drift is not necessarily the body, may be only fantasy and dreams. New generation of fashion leaders are floating, only do not want people wandering Gone with the Wind is that heart.
5, the unemployment
three-year-old unemployed before the taste of taste of course, is a misfortune, but not necessarily a bad thing. Prematurely before the three-year-old fixed in a career may end this life is the greatest misfortune. Unemployment may make you think long and dusty dreams buried, you may have never even wake up that potential. Maybe you already no dream, this time will force you to dream.
6, fashion
Do not chase fashion. It is said that young people should be the most fashionable, but independent thinking and personal life more important. In this materialistic society, in fact, as early as the pursuit of fashion has become the pursuit of money . Today, fashion is synonymous with materialism and secular.
7, style
This is something
Petty, \ Petty said, there is style to meet the four elements: intelligence, literacy, confidence and money. Style is the \ Performance conversation is only the vulgar uneducated, \ Not necessarily mainstream alternative ideas, alternative concepts have become the mainstream of youth, and today, the old-fashioned look down alternative. The key is the concept of today's society is a creation of the era, not a stick to the stereotypes of the times.
8, evaluation of
thing we should make the sacrifice because the evaluation of other people to change themselves, because those who tell you what people do not know what rules they follow. Do not just do something to comply with the rules, the rules are still being created, in its sole discretion to do everything, though it will trouble it.
9, naive
not afraid of people saying that we naive, it just shows you are still young, still full of vitality. \ Mature and immature white elephant of a man is the most irresponsible,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], the most useless generalizations. Those mediocre, some people say they will not be naive. Do not believe, to the day that you were living under the weight of old-fashioned, lethargic, people will say you mature, you will know that \
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in a rock there so sentence: \
11, failed
my teacher once told me that the emotional a person at least once a romance, a failure in business, mistakes in the choice of time to grow up. Do not say that failure is the mother of success, as the old saying, failure is more the sooner the better, if the three-year-old, four-year-old after experiencing failure, there is something, it may be too late.
12, error:
records of any person has made mistakes, but do not advocate repeat the same mistake. If you think there are people who never make mistakes, then this is your error Error: no one has the right to make mistakes, but do not advocate making the same mistakes, if you think that people will never make mistakes, it is your error.
30 years ago to make mistakes, if not fatal! 30 mistakes is before the age of 30 years before in order to avoid mistakes, no one can avoid repeating the error occurred, but as long as lessons learned, there is always time to turn over! want to repeat the error does not occur after the age of 30!
13, shallow
to see if every time, \ In fact, it only shows that your nerves are still very sharp, even very weak stimulation of the will to adapt quickly to the reaction; so you feel sluggish, and people will say you deep the .
14, star
not does not matter, can not care. Society is a star in the commodity consumer goods, spent the money, listening to songs, watched movies, the stars of the show no matter how good, but excellent value for money and nothing worthy of worship is not it? As you spend fifty dollars in the stall to buy a dress, others have guessed eight hundred dollars to buy and value for money, right? You worship the body skirt?
15, costs
not at any price, but to understand that everything you do pay a price. The people of our age, this is by no means a nonsense. Otherwise, the time to go to three-year-old will understand how much they once paid a price to pay not understand why more do not understand how much they receive, what.
16,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], alone
This is the price paid for freedom.
fact, sometimes we think is very lonely, lonely since that is the fashion, is higher than the crowd. Is no contradiction between freedom and loneliness, and unless you have depression.
fact, no one likes solitude, but always someone to create their own loneliness
17, frustrated
including emotional, career, and perhaps just did not buy today 花了冤枉钱 satisfying thing, a friend's house almost a full house but not get a word himself. Care about the feelings of frustration over not using to make fun of their own twist of fate, is to take someone else's mistake to punish oneself.
18, defects
Maybe you is short, maybe you look does not look good, maybe your voice like Donald Duck,,, then your advantage is that you will not be the highlight of their shallow surface of the delay, spend less time and less Some turn to go directly to discover your inner strengths, explore their own deep potential directly.
19, misunderstanding
If bad faith, then the interpretation of no use; if well-intentioned, do not need to explain. Specifically talking about \
20, rumors
This is a contagious disease, silence is the best vaccine. Unless you can find the source of infection, or to explain exactly will be the most ideal conditions for transmission of the virus.
21, crazy
This is the best young
psychological adjustment, can only show you energetic, physical and mental health. Say that you \
22, stable
three-year-old care about a stable life before, that there are only two possibilities, either that in the lottery, or is premature aging. 23, the pressure
middle-aged to withstand the pressure test what is his toughness; young people can withstand much pressure, glow of his potential.
24, to go abroad
may be a chance, might be a trap. Except from the moment the university entrance exam you hold this, otherwise, the attitude towards going abroad should, like love, strive, success or failure of revel.
25, salary
is working for other people, no matter how high salaries are not much higher. Therefore, before the three-year-old, the opportunity more important than money, cause more important than money in the future more important than money. For most people, before the three-year-old is not the primary objective of their careers to make money, but earn the future.
26, deposits
Not necessarily, because we earn less, young people, everyone knows that money is now living. So many opportunities, conditions so well, you can get money to the mortgage, to do something today to spend tomorrow's money; you can get money to invest, spend money to \ Money only if it is the process of circulation of money, or only
is the world's best quality stack of paper.
27, house
unless you buy a house is to appreciate, Yao Majiu you married. I have a classmate, family in the field, college graduates, the unit has no dormitories, the family will buy him a house. He used to have the opportunity to work in Beijing in the past, but he just bought a house that left the city can not be justified to give up. He is stable now, but nothing. The only achievement was getting married and having kids, because he felt should not have let the house is always empty, so the house becomes a home. House is the fable of urban life, this allegory should not be premature and we related.
28, the age
One girl had twenty-five
began to conceal their age, is really no need. Delayed until adolescence are now forty five years old, twenty-fifth what of it?
29, care
This is a Nabu Qi, does not fit the mentality of not giving up its opposite, but the ideas are free, and always keep the spirit of revolutionary optimism.